Art Thoughts

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Art has been taking a back seat lately around my house. Still occupies my mind , if not my hands ! This is my favourite quote from John Holt. I think you could replace the word leader with artist.

“Leaders are not what many people think — people with huge crowds following them.  Leaders are people who go their own way without caring or even looking to see whether anyone is following them.  “Leadership qualities” are not the qualities that enable people to attract followers, but those that enable them to do without them.  They include, at the very least, courage, endurance, patience, humor, flexibility, resourcefulness, determination, a keen sense of reality, and the ability to keep a cool and clear head even when things are going badly.
This is the opposite of the “charisma” that we hear so much about.  Charismatic leaders make us think, “Oh, if only I could do that, be like that.”  True leaders make us think, “If they can do that, then by golly I can too.”  They do not make people into followers, but into new leaders..”
John Holt in Teach Your Own (p. 64)



A Third Space

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I’ve been enjoying this blog for the past few weeks: Ben Hewitt. Ben is a writer and he and his family are homesteaders and homeschoolers. I’m having chicken envy !

In one of Ben’s recent posts he talks about how his kids passions are totally self motivated and how he and his wife believe in “presence not praise. He’s an eloquent writer; it’s well worth the read.

I’d like to throw in another possibility in addition to presence : collaboration. When we  are making connections with our children ( or anyone ) by finding and sharing areas of common interest then our presence can become even more meaningful. There is no need for one person to direct or be the authority. Everyone’s presence is truly valued. Sometimes it can be easy to fall into the habit where we’re all inhabiting our own little circles. Find something where you and your child’s passions can overlap – then you’ve created a third space !